Rules of love

So the rules of love...
This is all from my quickwrite we did yesterday.

1. What rules dictate the behavior of young men and women in relationships today?

So when in a relationship or trying to be in one, there are specific rules and guidelines but they can not be very well described. First off you cant "be a dick" you have to be just nice in general if you expect to go anywhere with it. It's not really going to work if you are rude all the time. Honestly i think this one is the hardest to explain.I have had girlfriends but i just have mental rules to follow so it is kind of hard to explain

2. Name a situation in which the rules have clearly been violated. In other words, what are things "nice girls" just don't do? What are things "nice guys" just don't do?

Nice girls/guys do not cheat when they are in a relationship. They stay "true" to the person they like. When not in a relationship they are not desperate for a new one and if they just get out of one they do not go looking for another one. Its just as simple as that. The simple stuff is what matters the most. Like pretty much "Do not be a whore." lol. I do not know how to put that in better terms.

3. What are the possible consequences for breaking these rules?

If you break the rules of cheating or flirting with other people the extreme case is breaking up or being hated by your boyfriend/girlfriends friends. Its like the rules are just there because people know they should not break them, and if you break them you should not be going out with that person in the first place.

4. Where do these rules come from? Who "invented" them and who enforces them?

The rules are just sort of common knowledge. People know what they are getting themselves into when they get a boyfriend of girlfriend. They know not to cheat, flirt, or do anything that is a form of cheating when in a relationship. But a rule i keep for myself do not be hella questioning. Like you have to at least trust the person you are going out with if you expect it to work.